Tag Archives: pregnancy loss

There isn’t much more to say about it.

The thing about death, grief, pain, hardship, or tragedy is that you have a groundswell of support right away.  Because that’s the RIGHT thing to do. But after the immediate influx of love, it disappears.  Because the hard part isn’t right away.  No. Not at all. The hard part comes after the dust of itContinue reading “There isn’t much more to say about it.”

All day, all shit

Thanks to everyone who has reached out. I don’t really have much of a capacity to talk & frankly I don’t want to. We’re incredibly disappointed – understatement of the century – & feel let down by the universe & whatever else is up or out there. I believe in the Sun, moon, & starsContinue reading “All day, all shit”

Oh, simple thing where have you gone?

I don’t have it in me to write much of a blog post. Or do anything but lay in my bed, cry, & stare blankly into the void. I don’t know if this is even coherent. But, here this is anyway. What a super, duper fun way to kick off Pregnancy & Infant Loss AwarenessContinue reading “Oh, simple thing where have you gone?”

Father’s Day

Father’s Day is a complicated day for me. It used to be a day where my family would be together and my dad would pick what he wanted for dinner; we would sit around and talk and laugh. It was a simple holiday, one that probably doesn’t get the same attention as Thanksgiving or Christmas;Continue reading “Father’s Day”

Dreaming with a Broken Heart

Oof, I know it’s been awhile, y’all. I’m sorry for that, but also not that sorry? I know that (to the right people) I never have to apologize. (Sidenote: if you are finding yourself in the constant need to apologize or explain yourself to “your“people, thems NOT your people, friendo. Cut ’em loose, & watchContinue reading “Dreaming with a Broken Heart”

It really “’tis the damn season”

When the legendary Taylor Swift (Yes, I did just refer to TSwift as a legend. She is. Honestly, I’m willing to go to the mat against anyone on this.) released evermore, her 9th studio album, on Friday December 11th I was…verklempt. Sure, I’m a bit of a drama queen as it is (where my TaurusesContinue reading “It really “’tis the damn season””